Boys would be boys and girls would be girls, all the time remember boys and girls are from separate planets. As said by John Gray's book "Men are form Mars and Women are from Venus". You might like a boy and would expect him o like to ask you out. That might not happen. To attract the boy you would do any thing as your heart is stuck on him, unfortunately your efforts go to waste.
Leaving you in despair that may be you are not worth him or any such negative emotion. However, the miniature mistake that you did was that you though like a girl and did what ever You though would attract him. However, Adam and Eve don't play that way. You need to have a straight through process of a boy while you reasoning about the strategies nearby it.
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Boys or men they are separate in their nature. From the only nature of man hood they are goal oriented. Hence, it's prominent for them to have a targeted goal and the desire to perform it. If he would get something precisely that doesn't quench his male ego. The golden rule to get the guy you like is to make him want you. For that you don't have to be nearby him all the time, be ready when he reaches out to you, on the contrary you need play the came called "Hard to Get".
This is just not an additional one trial and error methods, it is precisely playing with his psyche. As you become hard to get the interest level he has in you would suddenly rise and you are something that he is threatened of not been able to achieve. And he would reach out for you to prove to him self that he could get you. The best part of the play is that he him self doesn't know about this game. The following tips would help
1. Be Active or in other words be visible. Go to parties or other collective places where you are visible and active. Be energetic and be very chirpy. Talk to every one and make your nearnessy felt to every one. This should look very natural as the boy you like needs to think that you are there enjoying the party and he is just like any one else in the party. This would make a platform for you to attract his inquisitiveness.
2. Be mysterious. When ever you meet him in a collective party or otherwise. Don't make and effort to get close, let him start it. Ensure at no point the mysteriousness is gone as if that happens the inquisitiveness and the interest he has in you would vanish.
3. Be dressed to kill. This might sound like a cliché but this is indispensable. How you look contributes to 80% to the efforts you make for a guy to like or to get attracted to you.
4. Carry yourself well. This would purely depend upon the belief you have. Verbalize yourself. A maintained body is any way confident. Have a great attitude. With welcoming smile and sparkling eyes.
5. determined things should be avoided completely. Like being over talkative. Be poised and to an extent a miniature quite that would add to the mysterious quality. Some other gestures like - chewing gum and talking; folded arms; biting nails or just seeing at the floor could put of the guy that you like.
Keep the golden rule of "playing hard to get" in your mind and supervene the above tips and the success rate would be 100%.
How To Make A Boy Like You - 5 Tips To Play Hard To Get And Make Him Want You
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